22 Jun
Posted by kenya as Privacy, Social Networking
Until recently I was under the impression that Facebook’s Friend Finder would suggests friends based on common friends or on common schools or employers. That had been the bulk of the suggested friends I was getting.
A few weeks ago, I noticed that Facebook had started suggesting people that I know that had no common Facebook friends with me. They had no common schools either. What we did have in common was an employer but I have not included employment information in Facebook. Facebook no longer seems to say why someone is being suggested.
Last week Twitter friend @lightfoot wondered how Facebook was suggesting two friends that she had no idea was on Facebook but whom she emails often. I suggested that it was because Facebook kept email addresses from her address book when she allowed Facebook to search it the find friends on the network. At the time, I was not completely sure that this was the case. As of last night, however, I am sure. Facebook suggested a person as a friend that I have emailed only once. This person was someone I met in the Dominican Republic last year who gave me his email address to send him the picture he requested that I take of him (believe it or not this happens a lot). There is no way possible that I have any connection to him other than that one email and photo.
I took a look at the Friend Finder page to see what was included about how the service works.
It clearly states that it will not store your password but you have to click the “Learn More” link to find out what it does with the data it uploads from your address book. It says that the data is used to find and suggest friends and it mentions that the data is stored.
Facebook does, however, allow you to delete that data.
If you don’t want Facebook holding on to that data, you should delete it as soon as possible. Disclaimer: I have not yet read the terms of service to verify that “remove” really means “remove”.
It can be argued that if one gives Facebook access to one’s address book then he or she deserves whatever happens. The problem with this argument is that people allow access to their data without knowing what will actually be done with that data or how long it will be stored. That said it’s a good idea to read the small print before giving up your data.
Update 6/23: After deleting my stored contact information on Facebook, the service seems to be on overdrive recommending friends to me that are from my address book (three new ones today). Apparently, this information was not deleted. It’s best not to let Facebook have access at all.
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Mark A Dyson
June 22nd, 2009 at 11:39 pm
1Thank you Miss Kenya for your post. I had suspected that Facebook intuitively suggested people on your e-mail list if were still shadowed if you imported g-mail, but not company e-mail. Perhaps the technology that is intuitive is intrusive.
Kenya
June 23rd, 2009 at 2:32 am
2The former coworker is in my Yahoo email address book. However, with so many companies using Google Apps it is possible that one could give Facebook access to a company email account.
So many people are wondering how Facebook is suggesting people they know without realizing that Facebook stored their address book for future reference. I'm not sure those options were there when I did it but it's not readily apparent that Facebook going to store the addresses. It also makes you wonder what other services do when we give them access to our address books.
S
July 7th, 2009 at 9:54 am
3This is happening to me but I have never allowed facebook to access my hotmail contacts. So how have they managed to do this??
Kenya
July 7th, 2009 at 1:33 pm
4It works the other way as well. If people you know load their address books and you're in it, Facebook will also suggest those people to you.
Lolli
July 10th, 2009 at 6:04 pm
5I just opened a facebook account. On the first page was the option to accept Friend Finder…I declined by clicking cancel. Nevertheless, immediately came up a list of spot on potential friends that could only be gotten if their program scanned my address book. Like your twitter friend, there was a person I have only a slight acquaintance with but exchanged some photos with. Are you sure Facebook is not invading my privacy?
Kenya
July 10th, 2009 at 10:20 pm
6How could it access your address book if you did not give it access?
It is likely that people you know have already loaded their own address books which include you. You can test this by creating an account using an email address that no one knows. They shouldn't be able to suggest any friends for you in that case.
peaches
November 17th, 2009 at 11:11 pm
7So is there a way to stop this from happening? I just got a page suggestion from a company I did business with years ago (catalog). I don't like this! And some people find me who I'd rather not be friends with on FB (or even know I'm on it!).
Kenya
November 19th, 2009 at 10:27 pm
8I use a different email address for Facebook than what most people have for me. I think it cuts down on a lot of friend suggestions. It's generally a good idea to use different email addresses for different types of services (i.e. I use different email accounts for LinkedIn (business), FaceBook (social) and PayPal (financial)). My profile is also hidden from certain people and you can't find it via searching the web (I turned that off).
Kenya
November 20th, 2009 at 3:27 am
9I use a different email address for Facebook than what most people have for me. I think it cuts down on a lot of friend suggestions. It's generally a good idea to use different email addresses for different types of services (i.e. I use different email accounts for LinkedIn (business), FaceBook (social) and PayPal (financial)). My profile is also hidden from certain people and you can't find it via searching the web (I turned that off).
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